100 Questions to Ask Parents Before Babysitting

Babysitting can be an adventure full of unexpected twists and giggles, but every great adventurer needs a map! That’s why asking the right questions before embarking on your babysitting journey is crucial.

Whether you’re watching over tots or tweens, understanding their routines, needs, and parental guidelines is the key to a successful experience. These inquiries will equip you to tackle anything from snack time to bedtime with confidence and ease.

Now, let’s dive into the ultimate cheat sheet of questions every babysitter should ask before parents wave goodbye!

Child’s Personal Information and Routine

  1. What is the child’s full name and nickname, if any?
  2. What is their daily routine for morning, afternoon, and evening?
  3. At what times do they usually eat meals and snacks?
  4. Are there any specific rituals for naptime or bedtime I should know about?
  5. How do they like to be comforted if they’re upset or cranky?
  6. What activities or games do they enjoy the most?
  7. Are there any words or phrases they use to communicate needs or wants?
  8. Do they have homework or any educational activities that need to be completed?
  9. Can you walk me through their bath time routine, if applicable?
  10. Are there certain foods they absolutely love or refuse to eat?
  11. What is their favorite book, show, or movie for quiet time?
  12. How do you typically handle discipline and timeouts?
  13. What are the child’s current potty training cues or bathroom routine?
  14. Do they have a favorite toy or comfort object they need for sleep?
  15. What are their favorite and least favorite subjects at school?
  16. Are there any pets I should know, and do they require care?
  17. What allergies or intolerances does the child have?
  18. Is the child currently learning any new skills I can help with?
  19. Are there specific clothing preferences or needs for today/tonight?
  20. How do you typically deal with sibling disputes or sharing issues?

Health and Safety

  1. Are there any medical conditions or allergies I should be aware of?
  2. What are the steps to administer medication, if needed?
  3. Is there a first-aid kit, and where do you keep it?
  4. What are the child’s most recent immunizations or health concerns?
  5. How should I handle bathroom accidents if they happen?
  6. Are there any foods or products to avoid due to allergies?
  7. What is the preferred method to check their temperature if they feel unwell?
  8. Where is the list of emergency contacts and medical information?
  9. Do you have health insurance information readily available in case of an emergency?
  10. How do you comfort the child when they are sick or hurt?
  11. Are there any local hazards I should be aware of (e.g., a pool, stairs)?
  12. What is the policy on sun protection or weather-appropriate clothing?
  13. What is the usual procedure if the child does not feel well or has a fever?
  14. Can you provide details about any previous serious illnesses or hospitalizations?
  15. Do they have a special pediatrician or clinic they go to?
  16. Are there specific symptoms of common illnesses for which I should be on the lookout?
  17. What are safe snacks or meals I can prepare that adhere to dietary restrictions?
  18. Are there any specific instructions for dealing with a choking hazard?
  19. Do you have preferences for natural remedies versus over-the-counter medication?
  20. What should I do in case of an allergic reaction?

House Rules and Parental Expectations

  1. What are the general house rules that the children are expected to follow?
  2. Are there any specific chores or responsibilities the children have?
  3. What is the policy on screen time, and what content is allowed?
  4. How much supervision is required for outdoor play?
  5. Can friends come over to play, and are there restrictions?
  6. What are the rules regarding treats or rewards?
  7. Are there areas of the house that are off-limits to the children?
  8. Is there a curfew or a specific time by which activities should wind down?
  9. Do you expect any homework or reading to be completed during my time here?
  10. What should I be aware of regarding internet safety and usage?
  11. How do you want me to handle any misbehavior or rule-breaking?
  12. Are there certain manners or behaviors you’re reinforcing that I should encourage?
  13. What is the protocol for bath and bedtime routines?
  14. How involved should I be in the supervision of playdates?
  15. What do you consider an appropriate amount of independence for the child?
  16. Should I encourage or supervise any music practice or other extracurricular activities?
  17. How tidy should the house be when you return?
  18. Are there any dietary rules or restrictions I should enforce during meal times?
  19. Are there any neighborhood rules or expectations I should be aware of?
  20. Do you have a particular way of documenting or communicating the day’s events to you?

Emergency Preparedness and Contact Information

  1. What is the best way to reach you in an emergency?
  2. What are the local emergency numbers, besides 911, that I might need?
  3. Can you provide a list of important contacts, such as neighbors or relatives?
  4. Where can I find the contact information for the nearest hospital or urgent care?
  5. Do you have any preferences for hospitals or other emergency facilities?
  6. Are there any specific medical consent forms or documents I should have on hand?
  7. What should I do in case of a natural disaster while I’m babysitting?
  8. Is there a specific fire escape plan or storm shelter location I should know about?
  9. Where can I find spare keys if I get locked out or need to access a locked area?
  10. How should I report any non-emergency incidents or concerns to you?
  11. Do you have a car seat or booster seat for emergency transportation?
  12. What is the procedure for dealing with power outages or other utility issues?
  13. Are there instructions for resetting alarms or dealing with security system alerts?
  14. Where do you keep emergency supplies, like flashlights or batteries?
  15. Can you provide a walk-through of home security features or protocols?
  16. Where are the main gas, electricity, and water shut-off valves located?
  17. What are the child’s reactions to sirens, loud noises, or stressful situations?
  18. What are your expectations for communication during a crisis?
  19. Are there neighbors who are CPR or first-aid-certified that I should contact first?
  20. What is your protocol for lost or missing children situations?

Additional Support and Resources

  1. Are there any support contacts or services I can reach out to if needed?
  2. Could you provide information for a backup babysitter in case I cannot handle a situation?
  3. What local resources are available for children’s activities or outings?
  4. Do you have memberships or passes for local attractions or parks?
  5. Where can I find any necessary insurance or medical cards for the child?
  6. Do you have a preferred pediatric advice hotline or nurse line?
  7. Are there specific books or guides about childcare that you recommend?
  8. Can you show me where to find extra supplies, like diapers, clothes, or food?
  9. Who should I contact in the neighborhood in case of minor issues or questions?
  10. Do you have a list of favorite parks, play centers, or safe places for outdoor fun?
  11. Is there a family calendar or schedule I can reference for planned activities?
  12. Can you provide a written schedule or checklist for the children’s daily routines?
  13. What community services should I know, such as a library or community center?
  14. Are there parenting networks or online groups you’re part of that could provide assistance?
  15. What are the Wi-Fi passwords and any technology-related guidelines I should follow?
  16. Is there a quiet space or specific area you suggest for reading or downtime?
  17. Can you inform me about culture-specific practices or traditions I should respect?
  18. Are there language-specific resources that you recommend if the child is bilingual?
  19. Where can I access musical instruments, art supplies, or other creative tools for the children?
  20. Are there any guidelines for handling social media usage if older children are present?

Frequently Asked Questions

How do you prepare for babysitting?

There are a few important things you can do to prepare for babysitting. For one, you should review the basics of childcare. This includes things like how to change a diaper, how to comfort a child who is upset, and how to handle common childhood illnesses.

It’s also important to know your child’s daily routine and what special needs he or she has. These may include allergies or dietary restrictions.

Finally, it’s helpful if you have basic first-aid knowledge. This includes knowing how to treat minor injuries, how to perform CPR, and how to deal with choking hazards. By preparing ahead of time, you can make sure you’re ready for anything that comes your way while babysitting.

What are the do’s and don’ts when babysitting?


  • Follow parental instructions
  • Ensure children’s safety
  • Interact and play with the children
  • Maintain routines
  • Communicate with parents


  • Get distracted by personal devices
  • Disregard house rules
  • Share details on social media
  • Give unapproved food or medication
  • Lose patience or temper

What do parents expect from babysitters?

Parents expect babysitters to be responsible and reliable. Babysitters are entrusted with the care of their children, so parents expect them to be punctual and always show up on time.

In addition, parents often expect babysitters to be proficient in basic childcare tasks, such as changing diapers and preparing meals. Finally, it’s always a plus if babysitters can entertain the kids with games and activities!

How can I build trust with the child and parents as a new babysitter?

Building trust starts with effective communication, so be attentive, ask thoughtful questions, and listen carefully to the parents’ instructions and preferences. 

With the child, be patient and respectful, and engage in activities they enjoy. Consistency and reliability over time help establish trust as well.

Final Thoughts

Being armed with the right questions before babysitting doesn’t just put parents at ease—it allows you to create a fun, safe, and structured environment for the kids.

Remember, babysitting is as much about trust as care, so your thoughtful queries show you’re serious about your role. So go ahead and ask away—because an informed babysitter is an empowered babysitter!

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Robby is a multimedia editor at Enlightio with a journalism and communications background. When she's not working, Robby transforms into an introverted art lover who indulges in her love for sports, learning new things, and sipping her favorite soda. She also enjoys unwinding with feel-good movies, books, and video games. She's also a proud pet parent to her beloved dog, Dustin.